Tuesday 31 July 2007

Depressing and decadent lifestyles

I like to say that SL offers us an unlimited number of possibilities, you can be whatever you want, be it a human, alien, animal, sexy cat-like nekos, insects, dragons... and the list goes on and on. You can create anything you want too. But even with so many positive and interesting possibilities, why the hell on earth some people choose to rather be consorts and prostitute themselves for a few cents?

Yesterday I found a blog of a “SL whore”, that it, a woman who works as a prostitute in SL. She writes very well and, as much as it is interesting to read about that decadent sub-world, it still makes me feel sad to know that this kind of decadent lifestyle has made its way into SL.

That woman claims that sex is all that SL is really about. She is so wrong! Maybe sex is all that SL is about FOR HER, because as a whore that’s what she is doing when she is online. But I must say, SL is not about that at all, it’s much more. It’s about building, making friends, shopping, designing clothes or robots or scripts or HUDs or spaceships... and selling them, it’s about RPG, it’s about education, business, networking, it’s about travelling, playing, exploring.

While there are such things as “red light districts” and orgy rooms or whatever, where women allow themselves to be used by men in exchange of a couple of dollars and they think they are making “so much money” (come on, a thousand lindens is just about 5 dollars!), the rest of the SL lives on, far away from it.

The same way SL offers all the cool possibilities I listed above (creating things, shopping, travelling, learning, making friends), it also seems the offer some dark corner for those who want to indulge in sex, and for those who are so cheap that would prefer to be used, humiliated and to endure verbal abuse, instead of just buying a few lindens to be able to purchase that “so expensive 1000 L$ skin” (really, 5 miserable dollars).

PS: I don't want to sound like a moralist or an old church lady. Anyone can do what they want and they have the right to do that, I guess. But it's people like that who encourages guys to be disrespectful with any female avatar they meet. If it wasn’t for the prostitutes and the orgy rooms, there wouldn’t be so many newbie guys who join just for the orgies, and guys who keep pushing girls (in lack of an AO that would enable them to grab them).

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well, I think SL has room for almost all types as long as they don't harm anyone else. That's my belief anyway.

I was once offered work as an escort but when I heard what the rate was I just laughed and laughed. 200L for half an hour with some boring dullard, pathetic!

It's not a job I'd want to do...but I am quite curious...and the rate would have to more like 10,000L!!

Wilhelmina Yoshikawa said...

Caterin, you are right. I think I was a bit to harsh. As long as they don't harm anyone else and don't start selling their services at inappropriate places, they have all right to be in SL and do as they please.

In a matter of fact, griefers cause a lot more trouble.

I have nothing against people having sex for fun, they can indulge in orgies for fun. It's when people are charging for it that the problem starts, they become a marginalized population in SL and are exploited by others. When men pay for sex, they feel they can treat women like shit.

Anonymous said...

I 10000% agree with this